Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Welcome to the Temple!

Well look who it is! I was hoping you'd come. I sent the invitation knowing there was a good chance you probably would flake, but I'm SO excited you decided to stop by. Stay a while! Call your friends... invite them over too... it's cool, there's plenty of party for everyone!

Welcome to the "Temple of Groom". I'm your host, SuperDave. I wanted an outlet to talk about weddings, without hanging out at the girl's table while my boys watch the game in the other room. This blog is what I came up with. I know there aren't a lot of of wedding-caring guys out there, but I'm really interested in my upcoming wedding. I care where it will be, what we'll eat, what the centerpieces will look like, who will photograph it, etc etc etc. I'm not afraid to admit it. Sometimes I wish I wasn't this way. Sometimes I wish I could be the guy that just shows up, says "I do", drinks some alcohol, and unwraps wedding presents my wife registered for - God knows it'd be much easier for me. But I'm not that guy...

If there are any of you out there like me, THIS is your venue.
If you secretly care, but aren't quite at the admittance stage, THIS is your venue.
If you're a girl, but want to see what guys care about, THIS is your venue.
If you're a girl, and you have a plethora of wedding info and just want to teach me, THIS is your venue.
If you just want to lurk, potentially laugh while learning something useful, THIS is your venue.
If you're a wedding vendor that wants to give me a discount for pimping you out to my followers, THIS is your venue.
If you want to rag on me because I care, THIS is your venue.
If you're a family member and you only came because you felt obligated, THIS is your venue.

Look, I know for many of you, this will be great ammunition when we're in a sports argument... I'll make a valid point, and you'll tell me to go post it on my wedding blog... but I think this can be a fun place for all of us. Guys, girls, grooms, brides, husbands, wives.... everyone.

Welcome to the Temple!

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  1. I'm very very happy that there is guys out there who cares like you! This give us "brides" hope!

  2. Just got engaged myself, and I'm glad I found this blog! I'm also a groom to be, and I'm finding out that I actually do want to be part of the actual planning for the event. Looking forward to reading through the Temple!

  3. What a great blog. I am in the "I care" group as well, but let the fiance think she is running the show ;). I recently started a blog of my journey from my perspective. Your blog seems to be truly amazing so any advice you have would be much, much appreciated. Thanks and well done! http://www.groomspov.blogspot.com