tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433115176649472826.post3226175714584248615..comments2023-10-19T02:20:52.077-07:00Comments on Temple of Groom: Asking the guys to join the party.SuperDave @ Temple of Groomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00999651272443533741noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433115176649472826.post-51962993859414537712009-12-14T13:41:04.202-08:002009-12-14T13:41:04.202-08:00Yeah you are thinking too much into it. They will ...Yeah you are thinking too much into it. They will be really pumped when you ask them. I know when I was asked by a good friend to be in his wedding, I was touched because it meant something. <br /><br />I feel what you're thinking, but you have nothing to worry about just ask them.Charleston Weddingshttp://www.patrickhallweddings.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433115176649472826.post-81337666246311793032009-12-07T06:47:22.361-08:002009-12-07T06:47:22.361-08:00use it as an excuse to invite your friends out for...use it as an excuse to invite your friends out for a drink! and then casually broach the topic. It'll be easy, and a good chance to hang out. This is what my fiancè did, anyways... (liquid courage!)Wedding Diplomathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13241449466226849783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433115176649472826.post-50110322674242716632009-12-01T18:06:36.914-08:002009-12-01T18:06:36.914-08:00Mr B got all his guys cigars, and then said - want...Mr B got all his guys cigars, and then said - want to smoke these with me at my wedding. Worked a treat.<br /><br />P.s. I freakin love your blogMrs Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03367631935043016430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433115176649472826.post-15956998908184940392009-12-01T13:49:24.837-08:002009-12-01T13:49:24.837-08:00I'm pretty sure David called his groomsmen the...I'm pretty sure David called his groomsmen the day after he proposed.... three years before our wedding. Nothing fancy.Princess Christyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04707441750165767852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433115176649472826.post-22747241776504061542009-12-01T13:03:29.871-08:002009-12-01T13:03:29.871-08:00Here's what you do....Just take me with you wh...Here's what you do....Just take me with you when you ask them. I FOR SURE won't make it embarrassing or awkward,.i swear. I can even get the conversation started by saying something clever like " soooooooo Davey...is there something you'd like to ask him??"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433115176649472826.post-37375356055149737772009-12-01T10:27:59.461-08:002009-12-01T10:27:59.461-08:00I would not put this in a mass email. Just send ev...I would not put this in a mass email. Just send everyone a personal email in which you mention your excitement about the wedding, the specific date and that it would be great if they could keep the whole day free because you would like to hang out with them personally before the wedding. Because you know that a) that will be great fun and b) you really like them and it will make your day even better than it undoubtetly is going to be anyway<br /><br />That's not cheesy (I guess)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433115176649472826.post-67918330339957733352009-12-01T10:27:53.343-08:002009-12-01T10:27:53.343-08:00I'm pretty sure my fiance just called up his f...I'm pretty sure my fiance just called up his friends and said, "hey... wanna be a groomsman?" (Which is exactly what I did with my bridesmaids too... lol)Brittneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15422992347394158061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433115176649472826.post-73038902200170990482009-12-01T10:23:36.668-08:002009-12-01T10:23:36.668-08:00your totally over thinking it. send an email that...your totally over thinking it. send an email that says "dude - your awesome, want to be in my wedding or what?" If they are really friends that's all you have to sayAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5433115176649472826.post-80181796172226962482009-12-01T10:17:24.511-08:002009-12-01T10:17:24.511-08:00I think women with handmade cards and "will y...I think women with handmade cards and "will you be my bridesmaid" gifts ruin this process for the rest of us. We just had our first "dude, we want you to be in our wedding party and hold the chuppa pole" conversation. It happened at midnight over Thanksgiving leftovers and beer. In your situation, just beer or conversation should also suffice.A Los Angeles Lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15082554090481175349noreply@blogger.com